Remembering a departed loved ones doesn't require grand celebrations. Few weeks ago, my sister and I pay homage to our dear lolo, lola and dad. My sister and I offered prayers and flowers to them. I am very thankful that we were young when dad died, at least the pain wasn't such. but as we mature, the memories linger on... the envy starts, "wala na ko ya tatay" kaluoy man ko ya" and there are moments when i try to question fate... but on the positive note, lossing them is a blessing in disguise. losing them forced me to learn to stand alone, to be independent, to be responsible in decision making... losing them gave me the sense maturity i have now. and ultimately it taught the greatest lesson of my life - that life is dynamic, you have to move on, fast and quickly...
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